Stop Counting Calories to Lose Weight

counting calories to lose weightAm I crazy? Isn’t weight loss all about calories? Don’t you have to burn more calories than you eat to lose weight? Sometimes, yes, and yes. If weight loss is all about calories, then why am I telling you to stop counting calories to lose weight? Let me explain:

Putting the Cart Before the Horse

Before you ever start calculating protein, carbohydrate, and fat ratios, and before you ever start setting calorie intakes, you need to focus on the quality of the food that’s going into your mouth. Until your diet is 80-90 percent whole foods, you’re wasting your time counting calories.

If you’re going to restrict your calorie intake, and you’re not eating a predominantly whole food diet, you are going to be severely lacking in nutrients. And guest what – a nutrient dense diet is going to make the weight loss process 10 times easier. That means a diet that’s void of essential nutrients is going to make the weight loss process 10 times harder, if not close to impossible. Don’t restrict an already bad diet.

Step 1: Add in Whole Foods

So what’s the first thing you should do when you’re trying to lose weight? Eat less? That’s what most people think. I say no. Instead, before you ever start taking food out of your diet, you start adding healthy food into it. Should you be counting calories yet? No, not yet, and maybe not ever.

Make your first and only goal to start eating more fruits and veggies. Maybe that means you have a protein smoothie, or maybe that means you have a chicken salad loaded up with veggies. Whatever the case, don’t change any other eating habits until you’re consistently eating more fruits and veggies over a 2 week period. Once you’ve done that, move on to step 2.

Need some food ideas? Here are 100 healthy foods to eat to lose weight.

Step 2: Remove Processed Foods

As you add in more and more healthy foods, the ability to eat the processed foods that made up the majority of your past diet starts to get pushed out. Your body stops sending you signals that it needs more vitamins and nutrients. It stops telling you to eat, eat, and eat more food to get those nutrients in. Frankly, you’re too full to eat the bad food.

The cravings start to subside, and before you know it, your diet has slowly made the shift from predominantly processed foods, to majority whole foods. Congratulations, making it this far will net you 70% of your weight loss results. Not to mention, you are going to be 100 times healthier than you were.

Read more about how to overcome your food addiction.

Step 3: Add in Exercise

OK, so your diet is 80-90% whole foods. Do you start counting calories now? Nope. Now it’s time to start adding in exercise. Exercise is going to create the perfect metabolic environment for fat loss. It’s going to put your hormones in the right position to mobilize fatty acids.

Why am I telling you to wait to start exercising? It’s because I want you to focus on the most important aspect of health and weight loss – nutrition. If your nutrition is off, no amount of exercise will be able to counteract the effects. Nail down your diet first. Once you have that and it’s become habit, adding in exercise is easy and fun, and you will actually get to see the fruits of your labor.

Here’s a 5k training plan for beginners you can use for when you’re ready.

Step 4: Start Counting Calories to Lose Weight – If Necessary

Which takes us to step number 4. Believe it or not, not everyone has to count calories to lose weight. In fact, for some OCD people or people with eating disorders, it could be counterproductive. However, there may come a time when you want to lower your body fat from an already low percentage to an even lower one, and to do that, you might have to get a little more meticulous with your diet.

Still, it is not necessary. Many people have gotten down to single digit body fat without ever counting a single calorie. They practiced portion control, and they ate less and less whole foods as their progress stalled out.

Read here to see how to determine correct portion sizes for weight loss without counting calories.

Does that mean counting calories is a bad thing? I don’t think so. Counting calories teaches you a lot about your food. After practicing calorie counting for a while, you get the unique ability to look at a food and know its nutritional breakdown, and that can be very beneficial when it comes to practicing portion control. However, as I said before, don’t get ahead of yourself. Focus on improving the quality of your diet before you change the quantity of it. I think you’ll be much happier with the results.

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About Tony Schober

Healthy living curator, blogger, foodie, certified personal trainer, husband, & step-dad to 3. Founder of Coach Calorie. Hates scales.

  • caroline-s77

    Love this- if only we could everybody to take heed of this and stop jumping on and off the diet treadmill.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Yup, no 12 week plan can do what healthy eating does.

  • http://twitter.com/FitSmarty FitSmarty

    Good post!
    In my case counting calories lead to an obsession and eating disorder.
    It might be a good idea to count the calories at first, when you begin to change your lifestyle.. for the first two weeks or so.
    But in overall you should aim to learn to listen to your body.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      I’ve gotten a little obsessed with counting them too in the past. Every once in a while I add them up for the day to make sure nothing is out of control.

  • Carfoodel

    I use myfitnesspal to count calories and I have been on the yoyo weightloss for decades, it really works for me – it makes me look at what I am eating, the impact it has on my macro’s and I am getting healthier/eating cleaner all the time – I have lost 84lbs last year and have about 70lbs to go this year and calorie counting in combination with cardio and strength exercise and a load of walking is what has got me here. I think there should be an acknowledgement that there are many roads to fitness and tools like calorie counting can help you work towards healthy eating. MFP lets me see at a glance what nutrients I am short on and where I need to make improvements in a really easy format.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      I couldn’t agree more. As I said in the article, there are many benefits to counting calories, and I recommend everyone do it at some point in their life. However, many people start off trying to lose weight and they get overwhelmed at everything they are “supposed” to do. It makes it a lot easier for those people if they just focus on the quality of their food. Usually, that progress leads to them wanting to count calories and learn more about their food and fitness in general, but that only happens because they take their weight loss journey in steps.

  • Allison

    I love your whole thought process on this topic. I couldn’t agree more. Keep these great articles coming.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Thanks Allison. Will do ;)

  • Latrisha

    Thank you Coach Calorie! I have been losing weight slow and steady since August. When I started out, I just focused on eating healthier (more fruits, veggies, protein smoothies, and lots of fish). The weight started to come off, no calorie counting needed. I also started to feel better and more energetic, so I started exercising. It all just happened very naturally. It has been the most non-diet diet that I have ever done. That was a first for me (I am diet veteran). Somewhere along the line, I decided to “help” the process by counting calories. It was the worst thing that I could have done. For me (and I probably do have OCD), the focus shifted from what I was eating to calories. Over the last couple of months I have noticed that my weight loss has slowed (more than it probably should) and I have been eating things which have little to no nutritional value (as long as I eat under my recommended calories for the day). My energy levels have been down as well. I have also been finding it harder to exercise which stinks! I have been trying to figure where I went wrong and this article answered it for me! I am going back to what worked.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Hi Latrisha, we definitely don’t want to turn healthy eating into an obsession. It should come as naturally as brushing your teeth. With my personality, it’s very hard for me to not count calories, but I’m much happier when I don’t. Definitely go back to what worked for you. Make healthy eating an afterthought, and I’m sure you’ll pick up right where you left off.

  • http://www.facebook.com/lian.murdochwasdawson Lian Murdoch Was Dawson

    What would I put in a protein shake?

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Well, the possibilities are endless, but I like to mix my protein powder with frozen fruit and make a smoothie. You can also do banana and oats, or peanut butter and cocoa powder, banana and oats, etc.

    • http://www.facebook.com/jonidavidsonbates Joni DB

      i put 2 cups of veggies again limitless (kale, spinach, spring mix are my top two favorites) chia seeds/wheat germ and flax seed powder form not seeds then add 2 servings of any fruit

  • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

    It your weight, 1300 calories is too low. Show me what you ate yesterday. Also, what do you eat for cheat meals, and how often do you have them?

  • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

    Hi Danu, sometimes I forget that I have a worldwide audience. Thanks for the heads up. I try to label pounds vs kg as much as possible, but volume and distance measurements slip my mind.