Losing Weight is Not a Physical Challenge

losing weight not physical challengeDo you think that losing weight is physical challenge? Many people think that, and then proceed to fail at their attempts at weight loss. They’ve busted their butts in the gym and they’ve tried their hardest eating right, but eventually 90% of those people go back to their normal everyday routines of little activity and comfort foods.

Losing Weight is Not a Physical Challenge

Too many times people approach weight loss as if it’s a matter of following a blueprint. They think that as long as they follow step by step the workout program and diet plan laid out in front of them, that the weight loss will come off. This might be true, but it’s easier said then done. It’s easy to follow a plan on paper, but anyone who’s tried to lose weight knows that once it’s game time, it’s not so easy after all.

Losing Weight is a Mental Challenge

Why are you trying to lose weight? Do you have a goal in mind, or are you just trying to wing it? I can tell you that if you haven’t sat down and thought about what and why you are about to undergo one of the biggest challenges in your life – you are going to fail. Your mind is not in the right place.

  • That first hint of a food craving – you’re grabbing a comfort food.
  • The first time you don’t feel like working out – you stay in bed instead.
  • All your friends around you are eating pizza – you’ll start dieting again tomorrow.
  • That workout you have planned after work – you don’t have time to do it.
  • The hunger pains are setting in – you’re all of a sudden OK with being overweight.

Do any of these sound like you? There are thousands of excuses that come out of the woodwork when you feel like you’re backed into a corner being forced to do something you don’t want to do. Your brain will throw everything it’s got at you to try and derail your plan.

Learn how to train your mind for a new healthy lifestyle.

Take Control of Your Mind and Body and the Weight Loss Will Follow

You’re body wants to be fat. Your body loves the bombardment of sugar and processed foods. It makes it feel good. It send out all sorts of feel-good chemicals when you eat that bad food. These chemicals cause a food addiction to occur. It’s this addiction that makes it so hard to diet. Herein lies your biggest mental challenge – breaking your food addiction. If you can do that, and ignore all those thoughts your brain is telling you, you will succeed.

Read more about how to overcome your food addiction.

When you’re in the moment, all those reasons (excuses) for why you shouldn’t eat this or that, or why you don’t need to work out today all make perfect sense. Before you know it, you’re back to square one – beating yourself up for being overweight, and unhappy with the way you look and feel.

Know beforehand that you are going to have those thoughts. We all do. When those perfectly irrational thoughts rear their heads, tell yourself that you have a goal to accomplish, and that you have control of your mind and body. Know that those thoughts are irrational. The moment you make that connection, and break through that mental challenge, the weight loss starts – but not a moment before that.

Once you take control of your mind and body, the weight loss will follow. However, if you let your mind and body control you – you will be destined for a life in which you are always reaching, but never getting. Own yourself.

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About Tony Schober

Healthy living curator, blogger, foodie, certified personal trainer, husband, & step-dad to 3. Founder of Coach Calorie. Hates scales.

  • http://niawellness.blogspot.com Natasha Crawford

    I completely agree with this. The eating better food and exercise parts are “easy” compared to the mental/emotional battle within.

    • Coach Calorie

      Hey Natasha, that’s certainly true. Any exercise and diet plan looks doable on paper until you actually try it. That’s why your brain takes control.

  • Jeannette Laframboise

    I have to agree completely with you on this one. Until I have reached the mindset to do something, I will not succeed at it. I have learned this many times the hard way. I do think most people have to get to that sort of “mental place” where they just make up their minds and that’s it. Before I do just about anything, I go through a sort of mental preparedness and decide what and how I am going to accomplish something. It is a great way to approach life in general as well as controlling ones diet and exercise. Great post!

    • Coach Calorie

      Impulse control – needs to be mastered.

      • Cathy

        how does one go about mastering impulse control ?

        • Coach Calorie

          Cathy, you have to slowly change your habits. Pick something you want to change and work on that one single thing until you’ve managed to change that habit for good. Then, go on to the next one.

  • http://www.dietfitnessdeck.com/burn-fat-double-chin/ Chandru

    Very well said that losing weight is a mental challenge. How many times we make a promise to ourselves and then fail to do it? countless times- when it comes to dieting and exercising.

    We always try to find an excuse to skip the workout and to enjoy that yummy dish -this one time :)

    Thanks for the great insights.

    • Coach Calorie

      I’m a big fan of I’ll start tomorrow. Tomorrow only falls behind Mondays for most popular days to start diets ;)

  • Deb Dorrington

    I have finally reach the right mindset to start losing weight. All the times I was on a weight loss program it was to lose for someone else for an upcoming event. Neither of them come into play this time around, I’m losing for me..I’m tired of feeling old, slow, sluggish, heavy and tired.

  • Donna B.

    Preach on! I’m STILL struggling with the mental challenge to weight loss (as evidenced by my carb binge this weekend). Luckily, those times are coming further apart, and lasting less each time but it’s still a matter of willpower to get back on the right path.

  • http://yhvhrules.blogspot.com Emily

    There is an old proverb that says, “He whose spirit is without restraint is like a city that is broken down and hath no wall”. I do believe it is more a matter of discipline or perhaps simply prudence. A humble bowl of oatmeal can be satisfying, nutritious but it isn’t so glamorous. :o )
    My personal theory is we all eat way too much here in this country p e r i o d. Then there is that the food is not even real today. Don’t get me started in that area…

    • http://coachcalorie.com/losing-weight-no-physical-challenge/ Fire

      Hey!!! I was happy with a bowl of oatmeal!!! But then my heart surgeon looked at what I was having for breakfast and said… “Well there’s the reason you are so overweight! That’s enough calories for a whole day!.” I haven’t eaten oatmeal since that day. Happy to eat that if that is what I need to do – but if I am going to get even fatter eating it… Forget it!

  • Tracy

    You’re absolutely right! When I started my journey this time my mind set was completely different. The first four months were the toughest, beating the “crap” addiction isn’t easy. A year later that stuff doesn’t even taste good. I know this is a permanent change because my brain has changed with my body, they are finally working together for good. I went from 215 to 160, from a size 18 to a 10. Your site has helped me with that. Thanks for doing the research for me.

    • Coach Calorie

      True Tracy. There comes a point where you don’t really crave that bad food anymore. Sure, the cravings might pop up from time to time, but it becomes an after-thought. Every day that goes by without you eating that stuff, the easier it gets to make it part of your past.

      Congrats on your body transformation too!

  • http://www.missfitnesslife.com Vix- Miss Fitness Life

    So- true. So many people are looking for the best diet, the best quick fix, the best way to workout without even considering the importance of mindset.

    Getting the right mindset is where it all starts.

  • http://www.truth2beingfit.com Jody – Fit at 54

    No argument here! You have to be in control for sure & also know enough to move on if you “give in” for lack of better word. Own it & move on – you are the boss of you! :-)