6 Mental Tips to Achieve Weight Loss Triumph

mental tips weight lossSo much of weight loss is mental. In fact, I would venture to say that losing weight is more of a mental challenge than a physical one. With that in mind, it makes sense to focus on some of the mental aspects of weight loss so that you can achieve weight loss triumph.

Being Healthy Isn’t About Restriction

Here’s a list of things you can NEVER EVER have if you want to lose weight. Stop. Do you see how that automatically elicited a negative emotion? Tell someone they can’t have something and they almost certainly will want it more. Now, that doesn’t mean you can just expect to eat whatever you want and still lose weight. Instead of thinking about all the things you can’t have, try thinking about all the things you can.

Eating healthy doesn’t mean you have to eat bland chicken breast with rice every day. You have to enjoy your food. Nature provides so many different delicious foods for you to eat, and there are countless ways you can combine them to change their flavor, or prepare them to change their texture. Herbs and sauces can be made to add flavor too. Before you know it, you won’t even miss the processed stuff. Just think of all the new foods you will get to try!

Here are 100 different healthy foods you can mix and match to your choosing.

You Need to Enjoy Your Exercise

It’s time to get it out of your mind that exercise is some kind of laborious duty that just has to be done if you want to be fit. Exercise should be enjoyable. Do you remember when you used to play as a kid? You were getting in all kinds of physical activity and you didn’t even realize it. You’re never going to succeed long term if you dread your workouts. There has to be some kind of physical activity you enjoy. Find it. Then stop thinking about it. Do it. Enjoy it. Have fun with it and you’ll never work out a day in your life.

Here’s what you can do if you don’t like exercise.

Here’s how to make exercise your playtime.

Don’t Worry About Failing – It’s Going to Happen

Let’s get this out of the way now. You are going to fail. No one is perfect. Your weight loss journey will be paved with failures and triumphs. You will learn something new about yourself each and every time you fail. Vary rarely does someone make it from point A to point B without hitting a few bumps along the way. If you understand beforehand that failure is common, you won’t get so discouraged when it does happen. Instead, you can reflect on the failure, learn from it, and find a way to keep it from happening in the future. You’ll be mentally stronger as a result.

Read more about how failure in fitness is not only an option, it’s essential.

Set Achievable Goals

What? You want to lose 50 pounds in 4 months before your wedding? You need to drop 30 pounds before summer in 2 months? What’s going to happen is you’re going to get 1/4 to 1/2 of the way into your program and realize that you’re going to come nowhere close to reaching that goal. Then, you’re going to give up altogether, add the weight back, and maybe then some.

If you would just set achievable goals from the start, you have the potential to lose anywhere from 9-15% body fat over the course of 4 months, and believe me, that is a big transformation. It may not be 50 pounds, but you are going to look a lot different – certainly a lot different than if you went into it with big expectations, failed, and lost nothing at all. Remember to set realistic goals from the start.

Read more about setting achievable goals.

Forget About “Weight”

We all start off wanting to lose weight. There’s nothing wrong with that want in particular. However, if you go into this journey with the goal of getting healthy, you will soon see that weight loss will be a pleasant side effect. You didn’t try to gain weight, so don’t try to lose it. Make weight loss an afterthought. Change your body from the inside out by treating it well, feeding it good food, and keeping it active. Trust me, your body will start changing right before your eyes. Stop obsessing about losing weight. Put it out of your mind and just be healthy.

Read more about why you shouldn’t use the scale to gauge healthy.

Find Your Motivation

We’ve all had that spark that initiated our desire to want to lose weight, and the reasons range from wanting to see grandkids grow up to just wanting to look good in a swimsuit for summer. There is no wrong reason for wanting to get fit. Plus, your motivation is going to change over time. At first, I just wanted to look good. Then I wanted big muscles. Then I wanted to be the strongest I could be. But now, I just want to be fit, healthy, and injury free.

Not sure what your motivation is? Here are 101 ways to get motivated to lose weight.

What’s your motivation? Write it down. Put it somewhere you will see it every single day. Remind yourself why you are doing this. The beginning is the hardest, but once you start seeing results, the motivation takes care of itself and starts building on itself. Making progress is a great motivator, and once you’re seeing it, nothing can hold you back. Dig down and find your drive and remind yourself of it constantly. Then, let your foot off the pedal and cruise to the finish line.

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About Tony Schober

Healthy living curator, blogger, foodie, certified personal trainer, husband, & step-dad to 3. Founder of Coach Calorie. Hates scales.

  • lukasz kasprzak

    Very insightful post! I agree, probably 90% of the reasons why people find it hard to lose weight are mental. After all it’s nearly impossible to lose weight when you’re still thinking in the same way you did when you gained it.

    Also like you said, focusing on what you ‘cannot have’ does nothing to make the journey easier. One trick I’ve discovered to help my clients is to make them phrase it differently. Instead of thinking “I can’t have this” – which isn’t true anyway – I try to make them think “I choose not to have this” and to focus on the reason why they make this choice.

    Then they’re no longer a victim of depravation but a pro-active choice maker.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Good add Lukasz. The power of “I don’t” over “I can’t”

  • Gloria S. Martinez

    Thank you so much for all the information. I feel ready to begin my journey to being healthy while at the same time transforming my body.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Good luck Gloria! Let me know if you need any help along the way :)

  • Nicole

    Thank you very much,I have been following your articles,I made up my mind to achieve this goal this year,I have started already.thanks for the mottivations.

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Absolutely Nicole. Thanks for reading. Good luck!

  • Dana

    Hi,

    I am a 19 year old girl, and I am really confused. I weigh about 59 kg and am about 155cm tall..According to an online app, my body weight percentage is around 29%… My friends tell me that I am slightly overweight and I need to lose weight… I feel that way too… But my mother insists that any more weight I lose would make me unhealthy.. I really am confused.. Could you please help me out?

    • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

      Hi Dana,

      At 59kg (130lbs) you are far from being overweight. However, weight has little to do with it. I see you factored in your body fat percentage, which is great, but you aren’t going to get an accurate number from any calculator. You need to measure it physically with body fat calipers. 29% is a little high and tells me you don’t do much strength training. However, like I said, this number is likely not correct. Measure it for real and then come back and tell me what it is. We can go forward from there.

  • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

    This guide will answer your question – http://www.coachcalorie.com/how-to-lose-weight/

  • http://www.coachcalorie.com/ Coach Calorie

    I’m not going to tell you if you need to lose weight or not. That is for you to decide. However, if you want to bring your body fat down as a vegetarian, there are still plenty of foods you can eat. Beans, nuts, and grains are going to make up the majority of your protein intake, unless you’re also eating dairy and eggs. Here is a list of 100 healthy foods to eat. Anything besides meat is great for you. http://www.coachcalorie.com/healthy-foods-to-eat-to-lose-weight/

  • http://www.facebook.com/andrea.t.griffin Andrea Thayn Griffin

    Thank you.